Susan was a featured guest on ShawTV go! Calgary where she discussed the dating scene in Calgary. Susan offers up simple and practical advice for single men and women in Calgary so that they can put their best foot forward when seeking romance.

A few tips for couples to keep the romance alive on Valentine’s Day:

• • Do something new with your partner and break out of old routines and predictability. Walk somewhere new, try a new restaurant, a new holiday location, or a fun activity.
  • Spice up your sex life. Try new things in the bedroom that you feel comfortable with. Don’t be afraid to walk in to a sex shop and discover new sex toys, lingerie or video. If things feel awkward at first have a laugh about it. Attend a ‘spicy love course’ – there are lots offered around the city that you can attend together.
  • Send love notes to each other – slip them into her lunch, his briefcase etc (but make sure they are handwritten – email has made things way to easy and impersonal).

Valentine’s Day is all about love, but let’s face it, it can also be a stressful time for everyone especially when it comes to meeting expectations for the big day. Add to that the difference between what men and women expect from their partners for Valentine’s. Will the two sides ever meet?

We all know that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, and sometimes our differences can mean we’re miles apart when it comes to our Valentine’s Day plans.

The New Year is all about making fresh starts so here are some tips to get 2015 off to a good one if you’re single and looking.

BE PROACTIVE

Break out of your comfort zone and change things up. Alter the dynamic of what you’re doing to meet people. Learn a new sport – a team or individual one: skiing, running, hiking, golfing, etc. Attend spectator sports – hockey, football, soccer, baseball – whatever’s in season. Ladies these are great places to meet men. Volunteer at an animal shelter, hospital, or on a business committee. Go to art galleries, libraries, sign up for a class and go to seminars. Say yes to as many social and business invitations as possible. While it’s important to break out of your comfort zone, be sure to balance things out by doing things and going places that you like. This will ensure that you’re meeting like minded people.

Man up and ask her out

Everything starts with a simple “hello”. If you’re attracted to a woman while you’re out, whether you’re at a bar, the library, grocery store, coffee shop, walking outside, etc. take the lead and start a conversation. There’s need for cheesy pick-up lines, just act confidently and be yourself. Remember to stand up straight, take up space, avoid fidgeting and always establish eye contact.

The first impression that you make is so critical. With that in mind, read below for some tips for successfully taking that first step and approaching women.